Social Media = Envy & Jealousy

Yesterday a friend posted an article on social media and envy.  You can read it here.  It talks about how we can make our lives seem so great to the outside world thru Instagram, Facebook, Blogs, Pinterest and other social media. I found it quite interesting and very true.  I have dealt with hurt feelings from harmless posts and pictures.  I too, have thought other peoples lives are so much better than mine when I see the pictures posted of their 8th trip of the year and it’s only June, i’ve been jealous.

My hope is that my blog is never taken that way, most of the time I write about things because I have dealt with a situation similar and only after I have failed at doing it right will I write about the better way to do things.  They are never meant for condemnation, just a good laugh at what a mess I am.

The Bible has a lot to say about being who God created you to be.  When you think about it, if you are always trying to be someone you really are not it is telling God, He was wrong when He created you, that He messed up so now you have to be something different for the world to like you.  This type of living will create so much stress in your life because you are constantly going against who you really are and what God made you for.  It is like running against the wind in a really bad wind storm.  It’s hard, impossible to do and completely wipes you out.  The real you is who God made you to be, you are perfect as you are.

Just posting the good times is not all that bad when you think about it.  I mean honestly how many of us want to see pictures of our friends when they have just woken up? Or videos of us fighting with our spouse? Or, our kids bloody nose for the 3rd time this week?  NOT ME!! Most for us want to see that our “friends” are doing good, watch their kids grow up and share in all the fun times with when we cannot be there in person.

I have been a victim of allowing social media to get me down, to be envious, think poorly of the mom I am, wish my husband would do the things her husband does, and all the other dumb things Satan loves to put in my head.  Today, when those thoughts start to happen I will recognize who they are from and hammer them out of my head as fast as they popped up.  Will you join me?  Below are some verses on who you are and what God wants out of you.  After all, He is your creator and the only one we should be looking to impress, right?

Every one of the verses below are awesome to read and reflect on.  I would like to share with you real fast a Bible study method I use it is called SOAP

#1-Scripture- Write down the scripture in your journal

#2-Observation- Write down what your observe from the passage

#3- Application- Write down how you can apply this to your everyday life

#4- Pray- Pray that God shows you the “dirty” spots in your life where you need to “clean up” or where God wants to use this verse to help you in your life.

Start your morning off with SOAP, it will help you feel clean ALL day 🙂

2 Corinthians 12:9-10

Proverbs 31:30

Genesis 1:27

1 Peter 3:3-4

Romans 12:2

1 Samuel 16:7

Oh just to keep is REAL… This was my Facebook post last night after reading the article!

Tonight we had chicken pot pie out of a box and frozen mashed potatoes. We forgot to pray and one of my kids was playing video games under the table. #keepinitreal #noonewillbeenviousofthispost #lol
Photo: Tonight we had chicken pot pie out of a box and frozen mashed potatoes. We forgot to pray and one of my kids was playing video games under the table. #keepinitreal #noonewillbeenviousofthispost #lol
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I’m a mess

Yes that is right, I am a MESS right now.  My name is Maria, I am a mother of 5 plus our nephew who lives with us.  My husband works full time at a high school, part-time at our gym and is getting his PhD all the while trying to balance being a husband and good dad.  I run our gym while the kids are in school, I am on the board for our local football league, serve in ministry, all the while being a full time mom and a woman trying to be a good wife and mom.

I have been doing it the last year as best as one can do on their own power, which explains why I am a MESS. In Isaiah 40:30-31 it says Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary they will walk and not be faint. 

I am pretty young still so when He talks about youth, I can still relate.  When He says even youth can grow tired and weary, OH YEAH, I can totally relate.  I am TIRED and WEARY and I cannot do this anymore.  I wake up on Mondays and think, “Do I really have 5 more days until the weekend?’ It’s because during the weekend, I forgrt my day of Sabbath and I am not rested nor am I ready for the week come Sunday night. Lacrosse games, Football games, Soccer practice, sports training, birthday parties, church, parties, you name it… “it” keeps me from resting, “it” keeps me from being renewed, “it” has to GO!

So that is where I am today, “it” is going, gone, buh bye!!  I started with Facebook, I deactivated my account today.  I am also making a commitment to journaling on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.  Wednesday will be for Bible Study, Saturday I will allow to be filled with “it” stuff and Sunday is going to be my Sabbath.  This is a commitment I am making to myself, my family, my business, but most importantly to my Creator.

I am ready to feel the second part of Isaiah 40:30-31, I want to soar, run and not grow weary and walk and not be faint!

Thanks for coming along on the journey.